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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 28.06.2025 02:32

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Ask yourself:

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

That's it for today.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Why do I randomly start sweating a lot in public (while waiting in line, in a new class, etc.) then start sweating more because I’m embarrassed that I’m sweating so much? Is this social anxiety?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why is going on a date today so much different than it was when I was young?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Have you ever lied to your family? What were the circumstances?

Hangs out with loser friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Non est eum facere impedit aut dignissimos tempora.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Does not procrastinate.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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